The final piece of the puzzle

The lead.

Connection between you and your dog.

The guide to let them know where you are going and where they should be.

The rope that lets them walk you. 
The last one is where we are at. The lead remains the final piece of the puzzle. Nala is calm, loving and like a crazy beast when she gets on her lead. 

Usually I think dogs don’t get things because people don’t train hard enough. They don’t stay focussed. I have tried so hard, countless hours, countless techniques. Still Nala leads the walk. 

I shall be trying another thing this week, the figure of 8 lead. 

You can see it here

Next update – the battle for lead walking, a new tool…

A relief

Forgive the mess in this picture, Nala’s bedroom is being renovated. I wish I were kidding…

Actually it’s a weird room off of our kitchen that leads to the garden. When we bought our house the surveyor said ‘pull it down’.

Their exact words.

We know an amazing builder who said we could fix it. Hooray! Reduce, reuse, recycle probably isn’t supposed to apply to your house but it still seems like the thing to do.

The title of this post, relief, is down to my puppy and my weekend. Nala met a delightful 14 month old this weekend and was pretty much perfect.

The baby shuffled on the floor, Nala watched.

The baby laughed and shouted, Nala glanced and carried on her work on a bone.

The baby screamed, Nala checked everyone was ok and just chilled.

This was the relief of all reliefs. I could not be happier. Weirdly I’m not worried about the baby being born, lack of sleep etc at all, I just worry about Nala’s reaction. Test 1 passed with flying colours.

Now let’s get her to walk beside the buggy…

The Nala – who is training who

I’ve finally got round to downloading the Audio book of ‘let my people surf‘ by Yvon Chouinard. Patagonia is one of my most admired brands so I’m really looking forward to the book. I’m only 1 chapter in and already loving it.

Yvon talks about his early life and his hawk training. Yes, actual hawk training (I may want to be him a little bit…)

When a 15 year old has to trap a wild Goshawk, stay up all night with her until the bird develops enough trust to fall asleep on his fist and then train the proud bird using only positive reenforcement, the Zen master would have to ask who is training who here.

Yvon Chouinard

This is how I feel about Nala and her training. I always considered myself a calm person (as long as we don’t watch an Arsenal match together after a couple of coffees you will believe me). The following is on the Hungarian Vizsla Wikipedia page:

…must be trained gently and without harsh commands or strong physical correction, as they have sensitive temperaments and can be easily damaged if trained too harshly. However the owner must show quiet authority in training, otherwise the dog is likely to take over the training session.

No pressure then.

Be calm but firm. In control but kind.

Or you may break your dog permanently…

Nala has been a wonderful addition to our family in so many ways. One of the biggest bonuses is that because positive reenforcement is the only way to go with the breed I have to find a calm head space before working with Nala. After months of owning Nala I find myself in a calmer head space in general.

We are working on Nala’s training, and in the best possible way she is allowing us to work on training ourselves at the same time.

The Nala – preparing for a baby

Pippa and I are expecting our first baby in May.

We couldn’t be more excited.

The nursery is being painted (more to be done tonight) the buggy, car seat, cot and everything else has been bought.

We’re ready(ish).

The one variable we are still working on is The Nala. She has been the sole focus of our lives for the last few months since she came into our home. This will change in a couple of months when Baby Tucker arrives.

We have a book which comes with a cd of baby noises, we’re going to learn to walk beside the buggy with Nala. Nala will learn to settle whilst Pippa feeds the baby. We even have a doll to show Nala how to behave when we are holding the baby.

We won’t know how Nala will be until we bring the baby home. I’m ever hopeful that Nala will love the baby with all her heart.

We’re preparing like she will go mental but expecting her to be fine.

The Nala – Progress

I keep hearing that the Marines make their bed first thing in the morning. It sets you up for the day on a win, you’ve already achieved something in the first 30 seconds of the day.

I keep hearing that, but apparently I also keep repeating it. Whenever I go to tell Pippa that story she smiles and says ‘I know’. The kindest possible way to say ‘you tell me that roughly twice a day’.

This morning Nala and I got up at 6:35, played some chase. Chase is a game Nala invented where she grabs a toy, walks over to you and taps you with one paw and exepcts you to chase her round the dining table until she gets bored.

She doesn’t get bored easily.

We then went on a walk. Lead training is the current order of the day. Last nights walk and this mornings were SO successful. There is work to do but she is walking better than ever. A win.

Breakfast was next. A mix of Duck, beef and deer. For her, not me obviously. There are some mornings I don’t even fancy cereal – duck isn’t a breakfast meal for me.

We then made her peanut butter and banana kongs to go in the freezer for her nap times.

We unloaded the dishwasher, took the bin out and made Pippa tea (well I did, Nala wandered about with a toy).

I couldn’t feel more productive. The day has started on a win.

Here’s how the day would have gone without Nala.

This morning I woke up at 7:20, grabbed a shower and left for the train.

When we were buying Nala people all said ‘your life will change competely’ and ‘good luck getting any sleep’ followed by ‘are you really prepared for a puppy’.

Our lives have changed completely, all for the better. I do go to bed earlier and wake up earlier to play with my dog, she sleeps 11 hours at night with not a peep. Was I prepared for a puppy? I’m not sure I was. I thought I was. It is more wonderful than I could have imagined.

Nala has improved our lives in so many ways, starting each day on a win is just one.